{"id":13798,"date":"2023-01-23T06:49:56","date_gmt":"2023-01-23T06:49:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/?p=13798"},"modified":"2023-02-05T04:46:43","modified_gmt":"2023-02-05T04:46:43","slug":"2023-01-29","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/2023-01-29\/","title":{"rendered":"From Junkie to Judge: Recovery without God"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"4298\" height=\"5245\" src=\"http:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/humanists.org_2023_01_29_mary_beth_oconnor_Headshot.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13801\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h3>Retired judge Mary Beth O&#8217;Connor<\/h3>\n<p><strong>11 a.m., January 29, 2023<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Join the Humanist Forum, in person OR on Zoom.<\/p>\n<p>This Sunday we welcome retired judge Mary Beth O&#8217;Connor as she joins us in the Mountain View Community Center.<\/p>\n<p>Mary Beth will describe her long history of injecting methamphetamine. She will describe how she responded when her rehab ordered her to comply with the God-based approach of Alcoholics Anonymous and how she built a secular recovery program. Mary Beth then will provide an overview of substance use disorder and treatment options. This will include six peer support groups and a study comparing the efficacy of several of them. She will explain the benefits of building a personalized recovery program and the obstacles to doing so. Mary Beth will provide recovery resources and take questions.<\/p>\n<p>Bio: In her memoir, From Junkie to Judge: One Woman\u2019s Triumph Over Trauma and Addiction, Mary Beth shares her three-phase journey. The abuse and trauma that drove her to shoot methamphetamine at 17, the chaos from her addiction, and how she developed a personalized recovery plan, without a higher power, that led to twenty-nine years of sobriety thus far.<\/p>\n<p>Mary Beth is a Board Member for She Recovers Foundation and a Director for LifeRing Secular Recovery. She regularly speaks on behalf of these organizations and about multiple and secular paths to recovery. She had an op-ed in The Wall Street Journal, &#8220;I Beat Addiction without God,&#8221; and one in Recovery Today, &#8220;How I Attained 28 Years Sobriety by Rejecting my Rehab&#8217;s Submit to AA Order.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Professionally, 6 years into recovery, Mary Beth attended Berkeley Law. She worked at a large firm, then litigated class actions for the federal government. In 2014 she was appointed a federal Administrative Law Judge from which position she retired in 2020.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/795339793?h=82186198ae\" allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/795339793\">230129 Mary Beth O&#8217;Connor<\/a> from <a href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/hcsv\">Humanist Community-SiliconValley<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\">Vimeo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You can attend our forums in person with fellow humanists in the Maple Room of the Mountain View Community Center at 201 S Rengstorff Ave, Mountain View. Lunch will be served after the forum. We request a $10 donation for lunch.<br>If you attend in person, COVID protocols will be followed. Vaccinations and masks will be required. 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She will describe how she responded when &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/2023-01-29\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;From Junkie to Judge: Recovery without God&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[243,26],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13798"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13798"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13798\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13829,"href":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13798\/revisions\/13829"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13798"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13798"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.humanists.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13798"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}